School bullying has persisted for many years, but recently bullies have changed their tactics. Rather than lurking in the hallway waiting to steal another child’s lunch money, bullies today spread gossip and rumors, glare menacingly, and send nasty text messages and Internet videos. This newer type of bullying has led to tragic, sometimes fatal, consequences for numerous teens throughout the United States. Several states have enacted anti- bullying laws applicable to students. Tennessee has not yet adopted such a law, but may do so in the future. A prosecutor in Massachusetts recently brought felony criminal charges against bullying students.
Mr. Hampson’s “USA Today” article of April 5, 2010 noted below discusses some of the causes for this type of behavior. He notes the following factors:
•Less play time in kindergarten and pre-school. In the past, children spent much of their time in programs playing with, and learning to get along with, other children. Now they spend much more time on academics and tests.
•More electronic communication. If you can ask someone out and break up with them via text or instant messaging, you don’t have to develop the social skills necessary for face-to-face encounters. This produces socially maladroit kids who are fodder for bullies.
•TV and movies with the wrong message. A study by one of Englander’s graduate students found that kids’ entertainment programs so full of situations in which teenage meanness is rewarded that the project’s parameters had to be adjusted.
•Parental ignorance. This takes two forms: obliviousness to what their kids do online — in a survey of Bridgewater State students, half said their parents never supervised their online activity in high school — and a denial about bullying.
If your child is suffering from such behavior from others, you should take the matter seriously. For more information, you may want to review the information noted below.
“USA Today” article: “A ‘watershed’ case in school bullying?” by Rick Hampson
Posted by Steve Oberman